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What do you know about masturbation? The reason we ask is, because more often than not you always hear that all time common question, “Will I harm myself by masturbating” and the more known saying is, “You will go blind if you keep that up.” Masturbation can be defined as a self or partner aided-stimulation of the genitals. It is not something to be embarrassed over, however people keep this to themselves as it is private matter with the privates. You will find more people deny that they masturbate when they do. Masturbation is an objective aimed at sexual self gratification and not only genital stimulation.
Masturbation should be acknowledged as normality in a person’s life and nothing to be ashamed of. If something gives you pleasure then why would you not indulge. If you like cream cake, you eat it. If you want to ride a bike because you enjoy cycling, you ride it, so therefore the same relates to masturbation.
Masturbation promotes acknowledgement to a person’ sexuality. Where we learn to relate sexually with ourselves, with our body’s functions, - exploring further our pleasure spots and sensations, a contribution to the erogenous zones’.
Masturbation can lead to orgasm or prolong pleasure. The orgasm reached through masturbation is by no means different from the o¬ne obtained through having sexual intercourse. As everything in life masturbation has its down side, for its “dark side” lies deepened in people’s thoughts.
The anatomical differences dictate how men and women derive pleasure from masturbation.
Women normally start out masturbating later than men. Reaching its peak at around 30-40 years of age. Each to their own at this time. Men and women will have their own unique technique they endorse when masturbating. Some will have their own setting for the happening. Sometimes a masturbation session is promoted from watching or listening to something that sexually excites the individual.(impulsive moments) Some sessions for masturbation to take place is planned and organized beforehand (setting the scene for masturbation) A particular environment will be prepared. Women and masturbation. While masturbating a woman twists and presses up her finger fretting against the clitoris, which’s sole function, is to give pleasure. Also by tightening and relaxing her thighs or rubbing against a pillow or blanket mound, by means of vibrator, or direct contact at the clitoris with douche.
Masturbation and men. To masturbate men use their hands sliding o¬n the penis back and too. It’s funny how masturbation was once a doing purely connected to men. It was hard to accept and shocking to hear that that women even ever contemplated pleasing herself this way.
Masturbation is not an activity to shy away from or neither one to make judgment about others who admit blatantly to pulling their John Thomas so as to speak. Go along to your local clinic or talk to your doctor who can explain in more detail what masturbation is and what is included for initiating the process. It is not unhealthy or a dangerous act. If you decide to bring toys into this time be careful with sex gadgets or any sort of plaything.
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